Ever wonder wear some of the wedding traditions evolved from? During the 14th century in France, it was believed that the bride’s dress was to bring good luck and fortune to the guests. After the couple wed, witnesses would tear pieces of the bride’s dress as it was thought to bring good luck. To avoid such ruckus behavior, the groom began assisting his wife and would make a ceremonial throwing of the garter.
Things have come a long way and the throwing of the garter is much more refined. Today, there are mixed feelings on the tradition of throwing the garter/tossing the bouquet. It is not a required part of the wedding and many couples opt to exclude it from their reception. One thing that does remain true, is most brides will wear a garter for her groom whether or not they perform this ritual. At the very least, it can be a small treasure to be discovered by the groom on the wedding night.
Throwing the bouquet typically goes hand in hand with tossing the garter. If you opt not to toss the garter, consider one of these ideas for your bouquet:
Present the bouquet to a special friend or relative (such as your maid of honor, grandparents, Godparents).
Present the bouquet to the couple that has been married the longest.
Have your florist make up a bouquet of individual stems tied up with ribbon and give each single woman a flower.
A garter is a great way to add that ‘something blue’ to your day. A top trend in 2010 is personalization. Check out these favorite personalized styles for 2010:
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