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Choosing a Wedding Hairstyle

by Ann Marie Laurendeau, Anemone Makeup
Each year I meet with many brides-to-be who are undecided about how to wear their hair on their wedding day. In recent years, the hairstyling options available for brides have transitioned from over manipulated structured styles to hair that is soft, simple and elegant. Many brides are also choosing to skip the up-do in exchange for wearing their hair down in its natural state.
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Many of today's current wedding day hairstyles are inspired by celebrities, such as the soft loose waves made popular by Jessica Simpson. Another red-carpet favorite (that is often requested by brides) is any variation of a low chignon - styled just above the nape of the neck (shown above). Brides-to-be are also opting for retro looks such as the classic up-do made famous by Audrey Hepburn in the much loved 1960's film "Breakfast at Tiffany's".
Whatever hairstyle you decide to wear on your wedding day, here are some helpful hints to consider along with suggestions that are intended to guide you in the process. Please keep in mind, there really are no set "right or wrong rules" in terms of wedding day hairstyles. Whichever way you decide to wear your hair on your wedding day should be what makes you feel the most beautiful!
Wearing Your Hair Down
If you are considering wearing your hair down, think about your hair's natural texture and length, as well as the month and season of your wedding. Typically fine hair that is longer than two inches past your shoulders will not hold well in hot humid weather. Most up-dos, on the other hand, will last until you take them down.
Bridal Veils
Bridal veils, depending on their length and shape, can sometimes interfere or conceal the beautiful wedding day hairstyle you had in mind. Many of today's brides wear a veil for only the ceremony. Afterwards the veil is removed to reveal their wedding hairstyle and decorative headpiece and/or hair jewelry. Thinking about whether or not you will be wearing a veil for your entire wedding day will help your stylist decide what type of hairstyle will be best. If you decide to wear your veil for the entire day, it is highly recommended that you choose a hairstyle that allows your veil to be placed below the hair design, so that it won't be obscured from view.
Formal vs. Casual
The tone and theme of your wedding can also play a role in helping you decide how to wear your hair on your wedding day. A sophisticated up-do may be more appropriate for a lavish formal evening wedding, whereas a soft chignon may be more suitable for a casual daytime wedding on the beach. Even wearing your hair down with fresh flowers designed in it may be the most appropriate style of all!
 
Fresh Flowers
Fresh flowers, both individual and wreaths, always look gorgeous and romantic on a bride. If you wish to wear fresh flowers, there are a few things you should investigate in advance. First, speak to your wedding florist and find out what types of flowers will be in season on your wedding day. Also, find out if the particular flowers you have in mind will last throughout your wedding - not all flowers will look fresh for 10 plus hours.
Additionally, size is important! A flower that is too large will overpower your beautiful wedding day hairstyle, so keeping it simple is always best. A couple of good choices that look elegant and are long-lasting would be miniature white stephanotis and small orchids.
 
Hair Texture
Your hair's texture is another factor that can make or break a successful wedding day hairstyle. I meet many brides with naturally very fine hair who want tight curls. Or, take the example of an African-American bride who wants a fine, silky-smooth looking wedding day hairdo. Most experienced hairstylists can work miracles with all hair types, but even then there is a limit to how well we can guarantee your hair will last if it has been greatly manipulated from its natural state.
Hairpieces and Hair Extensions
If your hair is short or very fine and you are thinking about wearing a hairpiece or hair extensions, have a consultation first and make sure that your regular hairstylist is experienced in this field - not all of them are. Discuss your options and your budget with that hairstylist to decide if wearing a hairpiece or natural hair extensions will achieve your desired wedding hairstyle.
 
Magazine Photographs
When selecting your favorite hairstyling photographs from magazines consider why you like the photograph. Too often brides bring in the most beautiful photographs not realizing what it took to produce that image. Be realistic. Just because a hairstyle looks great on your favorite celebrity, doesn't mean it is the best choice for you. Most people do not realize what goes into most fashion magazine and editorial photo shoots. Most likely there was a team of at least 5 people, including the makeup artist, hairstylist, prop person, fashions stylist, manicurist, and assistants behind the scenes, not to mention the amount of retouching that was done in post production! That being said - please consider magazine photos as a guide and inspiration while keeping your options flexible. You will be much happier in the end, I promise!
Hairstyling in all photographs by Ann Marie Laurendeau of Anemone Makeup.
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About the Author
Ann Marie Laurendeau is a Boston Based professional makeup artist, hairstylist and founder of Anemone Makeup. Her business provides a wide-range of makeup and hairstyling for media events and weddings on-location throughout greater Boston, New England and beyond. For more information visit Ann Marie Laurendeau‘s web-site @ www.anemonemakeup.com or call 781-721-0083.
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