A lot of couples nowadays live together before getting married. Therefore, they may not need the "traditional" gifts such as silverware, china, linens, etc. The couple may be living in a house that needs repairs or even just a coat of paint. So they may opt to register at a hardware store instead of a major department store. Perhaps you just moved into a brand new house and spent all your money on the furnishes and accessories, now you have no money for your honeymoon. If this is the case, you can register for your honeymoon!
Another option for today's couples is to register online. How convenient is that? You don't even have to leave your house! There are many web sites out there that offer gift registry. For instance, Macy's allows you to register for anything in the store (from china to appliances). Registering online is convenient for your guests, too. They can see what you're registered for and shop right there online!
Before you register in any store or on any web site, here are a few tips:
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You should find out how they keep track of
their registry. Most stores nowadays use a
computer database. This will keep a record of
what gifts were actually purchased. This makes
it easier on your guests, too. They can see what
has been purchased and what still needs to be
purchased.
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Etiquette states that a guest has up to a
year after the wedding to purchase a gift for
the couple - be sure to ask how long they will
keep your registry list.
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Check to see the policy on refunds and
exchanges. Because you have registered,
duplicates may not be the problem, however, you
may just change your mind on a certain gift. You
want to make sure that exchanging or even
getting a refund will not be a hassle.
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Ask if they can arrange for your gifts to be
shipped directly to a certain address. This will
allow your guests to ship the gifts directly
without having to go to the post office.
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You may have a lot of guests coming from a
long distance. If this is the case, you should
ask if the store will be able to fax your list
to your guests so they can use their credit
cards to make any purchases over the phone. So
when registering at a department store, keep the
geographical location of the store in mind.
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Be sure to pick a variety of price ranges
for your guests to choose from. Don't worry
about registering for something that may be a
bit pricey. You may have a group of guests that
want to purchase one large gift.
If you and your fiance/fiancee have been living together, chances are you have your tableware, linens, appliances, etc. So why not register for something unique such as:
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Luggage to use on your honeymoon
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Airline tickets for your honeymoon
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Theater tickets
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Wine
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Camping equipment
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Sporting goods
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Outdoor furniture
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Weekend away at your favorite spot
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Have house repairs? Register for a gift certificate to your local home store such as Lowes or Home Depot.
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