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By Scott Almeida, CPA, CEO and Founder,
Wedding Payment Plan
 
Caught between shrinking disposable income and increased cost of living, today’s couples are fast learning to be both financially conservative and creative in this economy. Older, wiser and more technologically savvy than their predecessors of even ten years ago, today’s brides and grooms are empowered, self-sufficient, and know exactly what they want. Research has shown that these couples are also picking up the tab for their wedding 60% of the time.
Future brides and grooms are reconsidering entirely depleting their savings, spending their wedding gifts, maxing out credit cards, taking out a “traditional” bank loans, borrowing against a home or 401K, or taking money from families and friends — for good reason. Instead, engaged couples are employing the most effective combination of a growing number of payment options for their weddings to avoid making long-term, costly mistakes. Some are opting for newer alternatives such as specialized wedding loans.
While each couple has to determine which method or mix of payment methods is best for their combined financial situation, it is important to know all of the options available, including their advantages and disadvantages.
Tapping into savings
By all means save for your wedding, but not at the expense of having liquidity or paying down higher cost debt, such as credit cards in advance of and after your wedding. Completely exhausting savings is one of the worst things engaged or newly married couples do. Having savings available for emergency situations such as car and home repairs makes for a healthy financial situation. Imagine the stress of not having the money to repair a furnace or car brakes. Also if you hope to purchase a new home it may require a considerable down payment.
 
A gift was worth giving – Using your wedding gifts to pay for your wedding
Another mistake couples make is to anticipate or rely on wedding gifts to pay for their wedding. Aside from paying for an extra hour for the band, relying on cash gifts is risky. And, nothing causes greater wedding day stress than not having what you need when you need it.
 
Recognize a family gift versus a loan
If Mom and Dad are willing to pay for a portion of your wedding, congratulations! You owe it to yourself to ask your parents whether or not they expect repayment. If in fact, it is a gift, show your appreciation by including them on the wedding invitation and thanking them at the reception. If however, they expect repayment, don’t accept it because it is an easy fix. Protect yourself and your family by getting the terms of the loan in writing. If you have the option of borrowing from close friends and family, please consider all of your options first and do it wisely, otherwise you will find yourself regretting it.
 
Taking out a new or ‘maxing’ out your credit card
Credit cards’ low introductory interest rates may seem like a great option in the short-term, but in the long run, the associated revolving debt will cost you as it lingers on and on unpaid for months or years. Also, count on extra fees and financial penalties for being over your spending limit, late payments or not meeting minimum payment criteria. And maxed out credit limits show poorly on a credit report, something to consider for those seeking to purchase a home within a year or two (or more) of getting married.
 
Traditional or home equity loans
Traditional bank loans may be an option for some brides and grooms. However, under most circumstances, it will be difficult for a bride to qualify for an uncollateralized loan for an amount close to his or her actual average wedding spend. Additionally, interest rates for a non-specific, personal loan would most likely be relatively high in today’s rate market. A home equity loan or line would, on the other hand, be collateralized and would warrant a better rate, unfortunately often adjustable, but most banks are highly scrutinizing, even recapturing unspent funds these days.
 
401K loans or withdrawals
Even though most employers allow their employees to borrow against their 401K, this should only be considered in case of emergency. A wedding payment is not an emergency situation. According to Christian Weller a Senior Fellow at American Progress and an Associate Professor of Public Policy at the University of Massachusetts Boston, even a fairly modest 401k loan amount of $5,000 in 2008 dollars, a worker’s retirement savings could be substantially reduced. For instance, a 401(k) plan participant who takes a loan to smooth over an economic rough patch, and makes only the loan payments, reduces their total retirement savings between 13 percent and 22 percent.
 
Specialized wedding loan
There are very few out there, but there are specialized financial services companies that offer wedding loans to engaged couples and their families. Research has shown that the newest trend in weddings is for the couple to pay over time with terms they choose. These loan products are available at relatively low fixed rates and with flexible terms ranging from two to five years. All in all, wedding loans are a great option for young couples because their repayment process and terms are similar to those of student loans to which they may be accustomed. However, there are some companies that offer these loans and charge extremely high rates similar to credit cards so be careful in selecting the right company and product that works for you!
It is a tough time for couples to outlay large amounts of cash, necessitating at least a second look at payment options that may not have been available or considered previously. Just as couples spend on average 12 to 18 months planning a wedding, so too should they plan for how to pay for their wedding. The best option for a couple may be to choose a mix of several payment methods in order to accommodate a complex financial situation and best satisfy long and short term goals.
About the Author

Wedding Payment Plan, a first-of-its-kind specialized wedding loan company, offers loans of up to $25,000 to financially qualified couples, at low fixed rates and with optional terms ranging from two to five years, for use at preferred wedding venues across the state. Testimony to the need and desire of engaged couples, Wedding Payment Plan’s volume has increased by over 500% from 2007 to 2008.

Wedding Payment Plan is an idea whose time has come based on today’s lifestyles and economy. The Plan affords financial freedom, reduced financial stress, lower rates and budgeting capabilities for engaged individuals, couples and their families versus traditional borrowing techniques. 

Founder,  is a licensed CPA and serves as the Treasurer of the local chapter of National Association of Catering Executives and is a member of International Special Events Society, Treasurers’ Club of Boston and CFO Roundtable.

Wedding Payment Plan is based in Norwell, Massachusetts and serves the financial needs of consumers planning their weddings at distinctive area venues. 

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